Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Adolescent Sex Offenders | Post Abortion Healing

Adolescent Sex Offenders | Post Abortion Healing
Juvenile sexual aggression has been a retardant of growing concern in yank society over the past decade. presently it's calculable that juveniles account for up to simple fraction of the rapes, and half of the cases of kid molestation committed within the u.  s. annually. the bulk of cases of juvenile sexual aggression seem to involve adolescent male perpetrators; but, variety of clinical studies have pointed to the presence of females and immature youths UN agency have engaged in sexually abusive behaviors. Sexual offending appears to traverse racial and cultural boundaries.

An adolescent convict is outlined as any male or feminine between the ages of twelve and seventeen years archaic UN agency commits any sexual act with someone of any age against the victim's can, while not consent, or in associate aggressive, exploitative, or threatening manner. process a behavior as being regulatory offense or abuse will typically be tough. it's straightforward to spot a sexual offense once there's a large age gap between the teenager culprit and therefore the victim or the abuse involves force or penetration. however because the age gap narrows, associated if the behavior involves cuddling or an absence of force or aggression, it's necessary to assess it in terms of coercion, consent, or power variations.

Adolescent Sex Offenders | Post Abortion Healing

Some adolescent offenders abuse only within their family. Others select geological dating partners, acquaintances, strangers, and typically adults. Some use force or extreme violence whereas others trick, subtly pressure or manipulate their victims into gender. Most adolescent sex offenders are proverbial by their victims. Some teens commit solely "hands-off" offenses like paraphernalia (peeping), exposing their privates to others, creating obscene phone calls, frontage (rubbing against others in packed places), or fetishism (such as stealing underwear). Others commit "hands-on" offenses like cuddling or penetration with a member, finger or objects.

When adolescents are caught offensive it's typically assumed that this can be not the primary time they need done it or thought of doing it. Some teens begin by committing less serious types of regulatory offense and, if not caught, accomplish a lot of serious offenses. Serious styles of sexual behavior usually have developed over a course of your time.

Adolescents commit offenses for a range of reasons:

• Some teens UN agency are awkward socially, have issue creating friends, or are rejected by alternative youth of their own age, typically intercommunicate younger youngsters for relationship or sex. the kids they molest sometimes don t perceive what's happening to them. They usually become afraid or feel they can't complain, that the young  might take this as an indication of consent and continue abusing them.

• Some teens offend out of anger or a requirement for power and management over others.

• Some teens could also be developmentally delayed and unaware that what they're doing is wrong and abusive.

• Some male teens in geological dating relationships possess distorted pondering sex and relationships. They suppose that if their partner says "no" she solely desires a trifle encouragement, verbal persuasion, or delicate force. Adolescent sex offenders typically plan to copy scenes they need seen in creative activity media.

• several adolescent sex offenders become old in abusive families wherever alcoholism, misuse, and inter-parental violence are commonplace. Seeing this everyday teaches a youth that anger, frustration, and private desires are often controlled by the utilization of force and violence. A history of physical abuse, statutory offense, or neglect are often found within the background of the many adolescent sex offenders. One study found that hour of abusers had been physically abused, five hundredth had been sexually abused, and seventieth had full-fledged neglect in childhood. Over five hundredth of the adolescents had full-fledged a mix of those styles of abuse.

Though a majority of adolescent sex offenders are male, analysis rising over the past 10 years has begun to document feminine sex offensive. Studies of hospital, kid welfare agency, and treatment programs have found that females comprise between third - 100% of the convict population. General population and victimization surveys report considerably higher numbers and extend the vary up to five hundredth.

The following could be a typical state of affairs portraying the event of adolescent sex offending:

1. The offense history begins with watcher behaviors from ages 5-7 (e.g., tries to observe mother exploitation the lavatory or taking showers; perceptive sitter having sex along with her boyfriend)

2. attacking behaviors towards women on faculty grounds actuated by a want to really frighten, control, and degrade them

3. By age 8, inserting obscene phone calls; writing sexually oriented notes to 3rd grade classmates; creating degrading sexual comments; open molestation

4. Age 9, intrusive behaviors and inappropriate touching; "accidental" incidents of contact with crotch throughout play in crowds; sneak observance and looking forward to women to assault

5. At age 10, experimental cross-dressing; stealing keys and concealed into homes

6. By age 11, grabbing the chests and butts of feminine classmates; threatening them with sexual acts; standing within the sleeping room of a friend's mother, observance her sleep; sodomizing younger siblings on a daily basis

7. At age 12, continual harassment and biting; encouraging friends to affix within the behaviors; cross-dressing throughout the victimization of younger sibling; regulatory offense on women UN agency had been bribed to disease and touch one another

8. Property crimes of thieving and regulatory offense on children; breaking into homes; fitting women's underwear; cutting up clothing; cutting phone wires; spreading butcher knives round the house whereas looking forward to the victim to return home

9. Probation for felony charges; patient medical specialty treatment

10. throughout probation, continued  frequent, multiple break-ins of neighborhood homes; often stalking faculty peers; grabbing peers in halls; engineering gang rape; rubbing against women at school; assaulting women with intent to rape; breaking into homes following threatening women on the phone

11. At age 15, committed to the department of corrections for convict treatment as a raper

12. Receives sex-offender treatment whereas incarcerated

Most treatment specialists are of the opinion that flourishing juvenile wrongdoer programming needs a coordination of effort between the criminal justice system and treatment suppliers. so as for juvenile offenders to meaningfully participate in treatment programming, they need to be willing to deal with their issues and go with therapeutic directives. judgment and oversight usually persuade be helpful tools in guaranteeing shopper responsibility and compliance with treatment.

Clinical expertise has shown that the suspension of the juvenile sex offender's sentence, contingent upon his flourishing completion of a treatment program, are often a very effective rational motive. beneath such cooperative arrangements with the courts, the treatment specialist provides in progress progress reports to the court on the youth's participation within the program. Youths UN agency fail to go with program expectations are often brought back before the court for a dis positional review.

In several programs, probation officers play associate integral role in aiding the treatment supplier in addressing important problems and in direction the offender's activities within the home and community. The officeholder helps judge the extent to that the shopper is meaningfully collaborating within the treatment program and yielding with court and therapeutic directives. He provides a further link between the supplier and therefore the sex offender's family, and might assist the healer in impressing upon the family the importance of their involvement within the youth's rehabilitative programming.

The officeholder usually additionally provides a really necessary case management perform. This includes analysis (sometimes in conjunction with the assistance of social services) of the appropriateness of the juvenile convict remaining in his home of origin throughout his participation in treatment, and his want for supplemental community programming (e.g., community service comes, etc.). As a case manager, the officeholder additionally facilitates acceptable communications between the treatment supplier and alternative community agencies concerned within the youth's overall care (e.g., faculty officials).

In some programs, probation officers directly participate within the delivery of therapeutic services (e.g., co-therapist during a group). This most usually happens in cases wherever the officeholder has received further coaching within the treatment of offenders.

TREATMENT

Before treatment will begin, the wrongdoer should admit his offenses. Denial could also be terribly robust as a result of it's supported by the psychological feature distortions and lack of previous public response, that have decreased  the importance and impact of his behaviors. The wrongdoer should be confronted along with his offense, describing the total offense and accept responsibility before he will begin to grasp his past and alter his future.

Part of the treatment method includes definition and exploration of every of the stages within the regulatory offense cycle, distinctive the distinctive characteristics of every sex offender's cycle. The goal is for the wrongdoer to become thus attentive to the triggers that begin his cycle that he are going to be instantly alerted and use new behaviors to interrupt his cycle before he gets to the deviant sexual behaviors.

Positive gender and acceptable expectations are explored. By encouraging the convict to "take risks" by reaching intent on establish acceptable relationships, the convict is tutored new ways that to approach individuals and to regulate the outcomes of his social experiences. the final word goal is to interrupt the rape cycle before inward at the isolation and withdrawal stage, that signals real danger. The wrongdoer should acknowledge that his withdrawal into isolation is that the setup whereby his drawback grows on the far side his management, and he should have emergency plans in site to flee before he progresses into deviant fantasies.

Sunday, September 14, 2014

the winner of the Ultimate Healthy Living Bundle is...

The winner of the Ultimate Healthy Living bundle giveaway is:

Melanie Pike September 12, 2014 at 8:34 PM

I think the first book I'd read would be either "The Nourished Metabolism" or "Essentials of Essential Oils". Both would be so beneficial! As would winning this bundle, as we have 6 people (4 adults and 2 little ones, 3 years and 15 months) living under our roof, with one income overall. Tough to afford stuff like this otherwise. Blessings and thanks for the opportunity to win!


Congrats Melanie!! Please email me with your info! :D



If you didn't win, the UHLB is still available through Monday night at 11:59! :)

I mentioned it a little earlier, but this time around there are only 30,000 copies of this bundle available {total}, so if you were interested in purchasing the Healthy Living Bundle while it's for sale, you might want to get one while you can. I'm not sure if they will sell out! :)

What is it? 73 eBooks and 7 audio & eCourses, PLUS over $200 worth of bonus products you’ll really use! 

When does the sale end? 11:59 p.m. EST this Monday, September 15, 2014

Where do I get it? Purchase the bundle HERE. 

How much? The entire package is worth $1030, and it’s selling for $29.97. That's only 37 cents an ebook or course!!  
    Disclosure: I have included affiliate links in this post. Read the fine print about this bundle and read the answers to frequently asked questions about the bundle.

    Friday, September 12, 2014

    our BIG news + win an Ultimate Healthy Living bundle

    I've been waiting SO long to tell you this news!! :) Here is a picture- see if you can guess what is happening at our house this week:

    I can't believe I'm showing you this. We must be good friends.
    No, we aren't filming an episode of Hoarders at our house... ;)

    We're moving next week!! :) I have so much to catch you up on, but we sold our 1895 house last month, and Lord-willing, we are moving our family of 7 next week. It's been crazy-town around here, and boxes are everywhere. I wouldn't say we're the most organized movers, but luckily that pic was all the attic storage that was in the middle of being sorted out. It looked slightly better by the time I went through it all. ;)

    The main problem with going through everything you own? You find random things like homemade ornaments from your senior year of high school:


    I've let go of so much junk this week, but I couldn't bear to throw that one out. :) I have so much to tell you, but not much time to do it as we are in the big crunch to finish by next week! I even have lots of posts to show you of our completed house before we took everything down and boxed it away. :( It's a good move though- we are very excited about what's to come. We aren't moving far, but I'll tell you all that later! :)

    I'm very excited to share our big news with you{and the fact that we're almost done packing, Lord-willing!}. :) I cannot wait to get back into a clean house and start cooking real food again!! I hope by next weekend all this will be over. :)

    BUT- to celebrate our exciting news this weekend, I'm giving away one copy of the Ultimate Healthy Living Bundle- and if you're the lucky winner, you get all of these ebooks and courses for free on Sunday! :)



    AND!! the lucky giveaway winner also gets $200 in bonuses on top of all those books and courses:
    The bonuses:
    ** a bottle of Healthy Mouth Blend from OraWellness,
    ** a baltic amber bracelet from Sweetbottoms Boutique
    **a starter culture from Cultures For Health.
    ** gift sets from Made On Skin Care Products and Homegrown Collective.

    There are virtual goodies, too – a 4-month membership to StayAtHomeYoga.com and a 3-month premium membership to meal planning service Tradishen. And as if all that weren’t enough, there are also $15 gift certificates for TheJoyfulGiraffe.com, Strawesome.com and Trilight Health. {There is a nominal shipping charge for many of the bonuses, based on each company’s standard shipping rates, and is usually $3-5.}

    After all this moving business, I'm totally going to nab some time alone this weekend and read an ebook or two from my bundle. ;) {Ha!}

    the contest is closed*

    p.s.  There are only 30,000 copies of this bundle available {total}, so if you were interested in purchasing the Healthy Living Bundle while it's for sale, you might want to get one while you can. If you win this giveaway and have already purchased one, you can give it away as a Christmas gift! :)
    What is it? 73 eBooks and 7 audio & eCourses, PLUS over $200 worth of bonus products you’ll really use! 
    When does the sale end? 11:59 p.m. EST this Monday, September 15 
    Where do I get it? Purchase the bundle HERE. 
    How much? The entire package is worth $1030, and it’s selling for $29.97. That's only 37 cents an ebook or course!!  
      Disclosure: I have included affiliate links in this post. Read the fine print about this bundle and read the answers to frequently asked questions about the bundle.

      Thursday, September 11, 2014

      family, food, and one negative side effect

      Back on Labor Day weekend {forever ago now?}, my brother Josh and sister-in-law Cayse came down from Arkansas to stay for a few days. They're extremely awesome people and we miss them like crazy, so we soaked up every moment we had together after not seeing them for 9 months. In fact, we enjoyed seeing them so much, I totally forgot to take any pictures with them. :( But I did get one shot I was very happy about...

      We played washers one afternoon, and Noah needed to get one washer in the center pipe of the box- a major long shot. It was never going to happen, and then... he got it in the center!!!


      It was so cool. :) I can't remember if it won the game, but it was crazy fun. :) I can't even believe I got that shot of him getting that shot. :D

      Zaner's getting around these days. He's standing on his own, but mostly resorts to this frog position to get from place to place: 


      After the family left, we went back to school as usual. The boys made their first loaves of bread for science:


      And here were the results of their experiment:


      I love homeschooling. :) I love experiments that involve my belly. :)

      Although there's one potential side effect of being a homeschool mom I'm not so sure about: 


      Accidentally carrying your toothpaste to the car for no good reason. :)

      Or, I guess that might be a side effect of being a mom


      It was a good trade though. Those brain cells were going to die someday anyway. ;)

      When was the last time you accidentally carried something you didn't need with you? Or washed a hammer in the laundry? hahah!

      Have you ever played washers? Is it a southern thing? 
      Either way it's so much fun!

      Have you made bread lately? Any good recipes?
      We made this recipe and love it, but I'm always up for new ones! I really want to make some rosemary garlic bread since it's almost fall. :)

      Wednesday, September 10, 2014

      the best deal this fall: 73 ebooks, and $200 in bonuses for $29.97!


      Have you heard of those special huge ebook and bonus packages from Ultimate Bundles? I'm excited to be an ultimate bundle affiliate again this year because the packages they create are always such a good deal! I know that for me {a lot of times}, I would love to buy an interesting ebook but won't want to pay the $5-$10 price. If you're interested in reading more about healthy/natural living, this sale brings each book and e-course down to 37 cents each. That's an incredibly good deal! But only if you're going to get good use out of them by reading them, of course. {hahah!} :)

      Some of my favorites I can't wait to read this time around are in the real food/ diet/healthy eating section {my favorite genre to read!}: Grain Free Grab-n-Go: Recipes, Real Food Recipes for Weight Loss, and Kids Eat Real Food: How to Raise Kids Who LOVE Real Foodand then since Zaner has allergies and eczema both {I'm so new to the allergy thing- it's a challenge!!}, The Eczema Cure  and Allergy Friendly Comfort Food: 40 Delicious Recipes Made Without Gluten, Dairy, Eggs, or Soy. But there are so many more on top of those! :)

      Here's what you need to know about the sale:
      What? 73 eBooks and 7 audio & eCourses, PLUS over $200 worth of bonus products you’ll really use!
      When? it lasts for less than a week! It's available for 6 days only from 7 a.m. EST Wednesday, September 10 until 11:59 p.m. EST Monday, September 15.
      Where? Purchase the bundle HERE.
      How much? Well now, that’s the best part. The entire package is worth $1030, and it’s selling for less than $30. Sweet deal, right?


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      The bundle contains a wealth of information from the very finest healthy living writers out there – but there’s no risk of getting overwhelmed! A useful Getting Started Guide is included with your purchase, which will help you identify the most valuable resources for your specific health priorities.

      The Ultimate Bundles team has done all the hard work for you – finding the top experts across a number of healthy living fields and combining their products into one essential collection. If you want to take control of your health, there’s no better way to start!

      The Ultimate Healthy Living Bundle will only be on sale for 6 days – from 8am EST on Wednesday, September 10 until 11:59pm EST on Monday, September 15.

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      You can buy with confidence because your purchase is covered by the Ultimate Bundles one-year guarantee: you have a full year to enjoy all the books and courses in the bundle, and if you don’t feel like it’s made a huge difference to your family’s health, you’ll get your money back in full!

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      The bonuses include free goodies aplenty: a bottle of Healthy Mouth Blend from OraWellness, a baltic amber bracelet from Sweetbottoms Boutique, and a starter culture from Cultures For Health. You’ll also get gift sets from Made On Skin Care Products and Homegrown Collective.
      There are virtual goodies, too – a 4-month membership to StayAtHomeYoga.com and a 3-month premium membership to meal planning service Tradishen. And as if all that weren’t enough, there are also $15 gift certificates for TheJoyfulGiraffe.com, Strawesome.com and Trilight Health. There is a nominal shipping charge for many of the bonuses, based on each company’s standard shipping rates, and is usually $3-5.

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      Disclosure: I have included affiliate links in this post. Read the fine print about this bundle and read the answers to frequently asked questions about the bundle.
                     

      Monday, September 8, 2014

      a letter to Screwtape from my teenage self

      Long, long ago, in the last century {!}, I went to a very small Christian high school and was incredibly fortunate to have one of the best English teachers (on the planet). Looking back on those days, it was such a blessing to have a good teacher who not only believed in Jesus, but pressed us to know Him more by making us read authors like C.S. Lewis before we went out into the world. And, of course, it was also a huge blessing to have parents who sacrificed so much to allow me to be there in the first place. {Thank you mom and dad!}.


      As I was sorting through old boxes from the attic this afternoon, I found an interesting entry in my senior English journal- a class assignment in response to reading Screwtape Letters. I had completely forgotten about this letter to Satan's famous {fictitious} henchman, but I am so glad I saved it all these years. I found it quite entertaining to read this from my 17-year-old self! :) And surprisingly {or maybe not?}, 14 years later I find myself still battling with many of the same struggles I did as a teenager.


      Dear Screwtape,

      I am writing my one and only letter to express my displeasure in your former actions. I have become a first hand witness of your dastardly wiles.

      As you encouraged discord between my parents, I became confused and upset. I even wondered if God was still there. And I errantly fell into your plan. You wished me to do exactly what others have previously done, to fall away from God. But that is where you failed, Screwtape. I remained in contact with your Enemy and my Savior, Jesus Christ. And that gave me the advantage. I overcame the doubt and anger and trusted in the infallible will of God.

      I grew older, and as hormones attacked, you also attacked. I liked to throw my contumacious fits. You loved it when I slammed doors because my will was not immediately appeased. But toward the latter part of my teenage years, I realized through the convicting power of the Holy Spirit that a rebellious attitude does not please the Father. Only a sweet, humble spirit will be accepted by Him.

      Then you found another area of my life in which to parade your antics. And I easily complied to your whispered defenses in listening to unglorifying music. It was probably your easiest battle to win. To this day I struggle with wrong music.

      When I began to read my Bible and pray with an open heart, you hurriedly intercepted the petitions with thoughts of the next day's work. And you were not easily deterred. I had to pray to the Lord that He remove your presence. And as He has promised as I resisted you, you were forced to flee.

      I wanted to reiterate in this letter, Screwtape, that although you have power (in this life on earth) to affect me, your power is limited by the Father and the shed blood of Christ Jesus. Eventually you will be in a worse condition than I. An eternal position and place in the fiery flames awaits you. I am truly sorry about your future situation, and I rejoice that I will not be there beside you.

      But I forgive you, Screwtape. The wiles and temptations you created in my life were used to increase my faith in the Almighty, Omnipotent God.

      Your patient,
      Mandy



      Do you ever find yourself struggling with the same things you did decades before?

      Have you seen progress in your Christian walk with the Lord? How would you rate it now? Are you living for Him daily?

      Thursday, September 4, 2014

      today in three words.

      Life today in three words per picture: :D

      1. I'm sorry, mommy.

      2. Much needed snack.

      3. Bread machine wins.

      4. Dinner is thawing.

      5. Amazing butternut squash.

      6. Reading takes effort.

      7. Messes are everywhere. :)

      How's your day? :D  {in three words? ;) }
      Mine is good! ;)